# The Big O  ## Metadata - Author: [[Belle Rogers]] - Full Title: The Big O - Category: #books ## Highlights - erogenous zones. These areas are the neck, ears, nipples, knees, elbows, and inner thighs. ([Location 157](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=157)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - a firm hand placed on her knee can be a great turn-on. ([Location 176](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=176)) - Tags: [[Sex]] [[favorite]] - Don’t let it linger though, touch her in passing. It is another way to drive her crazy, and it will also allow you to feel how aroused she is. This will likely cause a very favorable reaction, and you can keep rubbing your hand back over that spot while increasing the length of time that you leave it there. If she is wet, then you know that you have done your job right. ([Location 217](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=217)) - Tags: [[Sex]] [[favorite]] - Compliment her. A little compliment can go a long way. ([Location 233](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=233)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - eye contact will speak volumes. ([Location 240](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=240)) - Tags: [[Sex]] [[favorite]] - Use playful banter, but maintain your masculinity by making firm statements on the things that you do disagree with her on. ([Location 242](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=242)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - A woman enjoys seeing that a man is willing to stand up against her, and this can be one of the most ultimate turn-ons. ([Location 243](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=243)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - Try to avoid directly touching her between her thighs until the very last moment before you have sex. This will allow her to become very turned on and ready for sex. Not to mention, it will also cause you to become excited. When you are on the same level, the sex is going to satisfy both of you. ([Location 275](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=275)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - Desire Excitement Plateau Orgasm Resolution ([Location 298](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=298)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - During the plateau, this is when an orgasm is about to happen. The blood flow toward the lower area of her vagina will have reached its limit, and it will become firm. ([Location 313](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=313)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - Her nipples are likely going to be erect, and they can become very sensitive to the touch. ([Location 315](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=315)) - Tags: [[Sex]] - As you finger her, alternate between pumping in and out of her while curling your fingers every so often. ([Location 431](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=431)) - Tags: [[Sex]] [[favorite]] - Ease up on her clit for a moment because you know how sensitive it can get and how quickly. Go back to licking. Take your tongue and do a few more up-and-down licks over her entire vagina. Then, focus on her clit. You can use two techniques to do this. The first is to make your tongue flat, then using the end of it, flick it up and down over her clit. The second is to keep the end of your tongue firm and then circle her clit. You can use a combination of the two depending on how she responds. Finally, once she is very engaged in the oral sex you are providing her, you can either add a toy or your fingers for penetration. ([Location 521](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B08358X6BH&location=521)) - Tags: [[Sex]]